Cool friends wanted

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Cool friends wanted

Just awful. And, once you stop worrying about the relative coolness of your friendsyou get happier. A lot happier.

Cool friends wanted

You want to have a group of peers that you lovingly describe with every amazing adjective in the book. When I was younger, I wanted cool friends so badly. I wanted to have friends that were musicians and artists. I wanted friends that hooked up all the time and had awesome cars. I wanted friends that I could live vicariously through.

I coveted their coolness, which made me overlook so many other horrible things about them. They know why you look at them with such admiration in their eyes and they feed off that. In high school and college, I spent way too much time trying to curry favor with the cool.

I drove them everywhere. I helped them set up for their shitty coffee-house performances. I told them how much I loved their tacky, uninspired art.

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They never called to invite me to a movie. They never helped me move. They never asked how my day was. They were the fixed point that the rest of circle revolved around. Even if the sun has awesome tattoos and gets free concert tickets from his cousin. So, as I started to mature, I began noticing what it was about other people that really made me happy.

I liked people who were unpretentious, who had empathywho were self-deprecating. Maybe they worked at a bank rather than working at a gallery.

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Maybe they studied at a state university rather than spending their college years backpacking abroad. Our friendships were mutually beneficial, not just comically one-sided, and, ultimately, they were so much more rewarding. And I can do better than that. We all can. Because there are much better adjectives out there and you deserve a better class of friends.

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